OK, I’ll start by saying that this blog will probably be challenging to many.  I welcome your lively discussions and responses, both publicly here and privately.  Sex is a natural aspect of who we are a love beings yet our expressions of erotic love seem to have so much tension, fears, boundaries and anxiety.   The challenge here is to marry the two energies not just in the theoretical mind, but in everyday interactions with our partners and community.  Remember sex is more than intercourse, it’s playful flirting; feeling and expressing our admiration of another’s essence and beauty; it’s dressing and feeling sexy and allowing yourself to experience your own juiciness; it’s a spontaneous passionate dance with a friend in the supermarket; and yes, it’s boinking too.  Allow this inner erotic nature that almost all of us have to express itself.  Know and honor your own boundaries as well as the boundaries of others and then play full out within those boundaries.  I especially like to see you singled peeps play more with this energy.  And couples, get beyond the familiar with your partner and allow yourselves to explore this erotic play in new ways.  Laugh, cry, dust off  the handcuffs and co-create the newness again.  Can you kiss for an hour in foreplay?  Can you allow this energy to build and build until you think you will go crazy?  Can you love on your partner’s toes?  Erotic play is still love even though it may not feel or look the same as what your typically think of as love.